My Thoughts on Sarah Palin

Those of you who follow me on Twitter are probably getting tired of the political tweets this week. Sorry, I got a little fired up over the past few nights. And some may know I don’t usually talk politics, mostly because I know others are very sensitive about the subject and quick to go off the deep end if you don’t believe exactly the way they do. (Those would probably be the ones who unfollowed me on Twitter.)

I have never been into politics as much as I have this year, because so much is at stake. The two parties are so radically opposite, and it shows the deep division of ideology in this country.

I watched the DNC, and now I’m watching the RNC this week, to continue educating myself on the candidates. I’ve watched the selection of Sarah Palin as John McCain’s VP candidate, and I then went to work learning as much as I could about her, ending with watching her speech last night.

The result? After that speech I was so inspired I made my first ever direct donation to a presidential candidate’s fund.

Obama’s fund.

I’ll admit, I wasn’t that keen on Obama at first. I was a Hillary Clinton supporter early on, and continued to admire her through the primaries. As it became evident that the nominees would be Obama and McCain, I started to research each more. I’ll admit I worried Obama was more into hope than action. And while I’ve always loved watching McCain on TV (he cracks a good joke!), I don’t like many of his policies. I can accept more of Obama’s plan for the future.

And then McCain picked Palin. I was really surprised by this choice. My gut reaction was that he picked a woman to try to win over the Hillary Clinton supporters. Only he picked a woman who is the ideological opposite of Clinton. (Gloria Steinem gives a great overview here.)

I’d like to believe he didn’t think he could convince women to vote in solidarity for a fellow woman just because of our gynecological similarities. Because while I think we’re long due for a woman in one of the top 2 government positions, I still have a brain, and I will look deeper than a double X chromosome to see what this woman really stands for.

And I’ve got some major issues with Palin. I don’t like her anti-choice stance, and I worry she wants to bring religion into government and schools when the constitution clearly spells out that religion has no place there. I disagree with her on global warming and drilling everywhere you can for oil. Oil is not an answer to the energy crisis – renewable energy needs to be developed further as a replacement. I think she lacks national experience, and wonder how much experience can be gained from being governor of a state that has a smaller population than the city of Columbus, Ohio.

Her daughter’s pregnancy is not an issue for me, although I do wonder if Palin is still a believer that abstinence-only sex education works. Her son having Downs Syndrome is also not an issue for me, as I’d imagine she has plenty of help to raise him. Those are her issues to deal with, not mine, and they don’t affect my voting choice.

Sarah Palin doesn’t represent me as a woman, and she won’t be getting my vote. I don’t think she’s the everyday “hockey mom”, “PTA mom” or “insert-adjective-here mom” that she tries to portray herself as. I won’t vote for a woman just because she’s a woman, just like I won’t vote based on a single issue.

Others will disagree with me, and that’s OK. That’s the beauty of this country – we have the freedom to share different opinions. Yes, you’ll find “liberal” leanings here at my blog – I’ll fully admit to being a Democrat. I ask only that you respect my opinions just as I’ll respect yours. I know I’ve already lost Twitter followers because of my liberal comments. Yet I have many conservative friends – we participate in good-natured debates and in the end, agree to disagree.

And I hope that anyone who goes to the polls will take the time to do their full research and make sure the candidates they’re choosing are really the people they want to stand behind. I’m sure more than a few are regretting they ever voted for the candidate that they would most like to share a beer with eight years and four years ago.

And finally, I’ll end with a lot of humor and a dose of truth, as is often the case with The Daily Show:



New School Year

Ready for her first day of school – no tears, minimal protesting.


Who Am I?

Several days ago, I was speaking with a friend who has recently started blogging. (I won’t get into the weirdness of having my internet life and local life crashing together yet again. Very odd.) Anyway, we were chatting about writing styles and such, and she said something that really took me by surprise:

“You’re different in person than you are on your blog.”

Hmmm…

So naturally, I’ve been dwelling on this for days. It’s not her fault – being giving feedback on myself tends to make me look inwards and evaluate the criticism. (Criticism here meaning an analysis, not necessarily something negative.) In other words, lots of navel gazing and living inside my head.

I know that neither the internet me or the everyday me provides the full picture of who I am. After all, in everyday life there are details of our personalities we hide from the public and other aspects we try to play up. But on the internet, parts of my inner self are kept private that might otherwise be common knowledge among friends I see in Columbus. For example, I feel comfortable sharing my depression with all of you, but it’s something I try to hide with people I talk with in everyday life. My relationship with Aaron is something I’d talk about casually with friends in-person – on this blog, however, many details are censored.

Do any of us ever show our true selves to anyone? I wonder if my online voice is closer to the real me than the person I am while walking through the grocery or chatting with friends at a party? Online I don’t have to feel self-conscious about my appearance. I have the luxury of taking time with my words, re-writing them if needed instead of dealing with a mouth that moves faster than the brain can put together complete thoughts. I have more control over what I will share and what I won’t share.

And now we come to the group participation part of this narcissism. I want your opinions: do you think your online persona is different from your “real-life” personality? If so, which do you think is closer to the person you consider the true you?

(Also, am I the only one who thinks crazy things like this?)



Haiku Friday: Labor Day

Farewell to Summer
With Labor Day comes the start
of the Fall season

Goodbye swimming and
sandals. Hello pretty leaves,
pumpkins and cider.

Sure, it won’t be getting cooler for weeks, but Labor Day in the US is the typical dividing line between summer and fall. Fall is my favorite season, and I can’t wait for all it has to offer: pumpkin picking, playing in the leaves, the cool, crisp air, and the bounty of the harvest.

For this weekend, we’re having friends over Saturday afternoon, then having a cookout with family on Monday. Are you doing anything exciting this weekend?

To play along for Haiku Friday, follow these steps:

1. Write your own haiku on your blog. You can do one or many, all following a theme or just random. What’s a haiku, you ask? Click here.

2. Sign the Mister Linky below with your name and the link to your haiku post (the specific post URL, not your main blog URL). DON’T sign unless you have a haiku this week. If you need help with this, please let me know.

3. Pick up a Haiku Friday button to display on the post or in your sidebar by clicking the button at the top.

REMEMBER: Do not post your link unless you have a haiku this week! I will delete any links without haiku!



What Happens When You’re Told "Mommy, Take A Picture Of Me!"

Mommy, look at me!

Mira is an unwilling participant (and had a clothing change)


If I thought for one minute that she’d ever sit still for hair, makeup, bright lights and lots of people, I might let her be a child model.